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FiftyPlusConnect.com provides a safe and secure environment to find
companions or a partner. Meeting on the internet is similar to meeting in
any other way. The personal safe guards you rely on when you meet a someone
at a party, on the tennis court, or in a theatre lobby apply to the
internet.
AS LONG AS YOU REMAIN ON FiftyPlusConnect.com YOUR E-MAIL ADDRESS IS
ANONYMOUS. OUR E-MAIL SYSTEM OPERATES WITHIN THE CONFINES OF THE SITE ONLY.
A SITE MEMBER CAN LEARN YOUR E-MAIL ADDRESS ONLY IF YOU GIVE IT TO THEM.
As you begin making connections on the internet, please remember:
‹On the internet, you are anonymous. Remain anonymous until you feel
completely secure about your new internet acquaintance.
‹Do not put ANY personal information in your Profile‹not even your last
name. FiftyPlusConnect.com randomly checks profiles to insure there is no
pornographic or other inappropriate text or photos posted. We are also on
the lookout for personal information included inadvertently. We can not
check every Profile, so please do not post personal information in your
Profile. In correspondence with other members, don't give personal
information until you feel 100% secure.
‹Take your time. One of the advantages of meeting someone online is that
you can get to know each other slowly, over a span of time. Actually, if
you choose, you can know someone quite well before you meet face to face.
‹Before you give an online acquaintance your phone number, E-mail address,
or home address, try typing his or her name into Google.com. See if
anything comes up which contradicts what you've been told.
‹Contradictions or inconsistent statements could indicate that you need to
stop communicating with that person.
‹Before you meet face to face, we recommend beginning a telephone
relationship. You may want to use a cell phone number before you give out
your home number. If you are the one making the call, you may want to call
the phone company for information on how to prevent your number from from
being displayed on caller ID.
‹When you decide it's time to meet in person, do so in a public and crowded
place. Tell a friend who you are meeting, and where that meeting will take
place. Call the friend when you return home. Make sure you get to and from
the meeting independently. Do not let the person meet you at your home. Do
not visit your date's home.
‹If your instincts are telling you something isn't right, trust your
feelings!!!! Stop communicating with that person.
‹Devious people may ask you to visit another web site so they can record
your E-mail address. Don't do it. They might ask you to call a phone
number with charges attached to your call. Check with a phone company
operator to make sure every phone number you're given has a legitimate area
code.
‹If a member doesn't respect your wishes to go slowly or corresponds using
aggressive or foul language, we recommend that you stop communicating with
that member.
PLEASE REPORT ANY THREATENING OR UNPLEASANT BEHAVIOR TO USER COMPLAINTS.
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